Tuesday, November 01, 2005

Kisses

KissesIt must be the lil bit of Bailey's that I downed ( and the sappy Something To Talk About they're playing on tv right now ) but I have to admit that I do miss one thing about having a boyfriend. You'd be forgiven for having awfully prurient thoughts if you thought it was the mind-blowing sex.

And it is :) I am certainly not a saint and several months of enforced celibacy are slowly driving me crazy but that's not all that I'm missing. The sex is all good and it's always a fun way to while away a lazy Sunday morning but I miss the kisses. Seriously. So sentimentally mawkish but it's true unfortunately. Not sure why some gay men are not that interested in kissing but I certainly am. Not only the crazy, soul-devouring kisses in the night but also the simple pecks we shared in the early mornings before work. What can I say? I am an orally fixated guy.

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

Aww ... that's such a sweet picture :) Coupled with your genuine-touching-expressions (so cute & hot!) in the last paragraph, I don't see why you should be permanently deprived of a Prince Charming.
Don't worry, you'll get your morning kisses real soon from your Prince Charming (not just anybody, duh!) but meanwhile, stay away from the Bailey's :)

savante said...

You're back, Jason :) So why aren't you offering me some morning kisses? BTW, gonna stay away from the Bailey's.

Paul

Logan said...

It's the little things that count the most sometimes. I'm missing the everyday smoochies, the times when I could just walk up and hug and give a kiss without needing a reason other than that I just wanted to. Little things like that never need an altruistic arc for them to matter just as much as everything else (in my opinion, at least).

Musang said...

This post reminds me of my first kiss.

Sloppy, yucky, a lot of saliva and a lot of teeth.

But then again, practice makes perfect.

Shit... Now I need someone to kiss me.

Petie said...

Here Here to your sentiment... One of the many reason to have a bf is to kiss and be kiss daily... Also the hugging and the making out... So far I only done so in The Sims 2 :p

Anonymous said...

There are levels to that, you know. :)

Anonymous said...

Yeah, it's the kisses and cuddles that speak of comfort, closeness and romantic affection. :o)

A good w*nk can be a (poor) substitute for the sex, but nothing can really substitute for the kissing. :o(

Michael said...

Not mawkish at all, of course. There's nothing quite like mouth love.

Joel said...

Kissing it in my top 3 things list of "things I like about sex!" BUT it has to be a good kisser...not sloppy wet all over my face kisses AND not tight-lipped. There HAS to be a good balance.

AJ said...

Aww honey, I love kissing too, but only with real people I form some connection with. Animal sex can be forgotten so easily sometimes but the memory of a good kiss will last...

savante said...

logan, you are so right. It's the small things that you remember.

musang, lemme give you a kiss. I just can't call you bitch.

pete.. I love SIMS!

Brian, you lucky man. How many levels of kisses do you get on a daily basis!

You have to be kidding, seshat. Most straight guys love doing everything - so getting kisses shouldn't be a problem.

ru... ah comfort, closeness and romantic affection... I am getting chills thinking of that.

mouth love.. yummy, michael. Thanks for the kisses, kev.

scotty, at the moment, I'd take any kisses including the sloppy, doglike kisses. Discretion dies in the face of desperation :)

lost, a guy who hates kissing? Damn, I'd dump him in a sec. Sorry.

aj, you are right but right now you have led me to think of monkey animal sex.

Paul


Paul

Anonymous said...

Babe ... you still have the right to exercise your discretion, ok ?

Prince Charming is kinda probably just lost MOMENTARILY in his journey to your Castle .. (understandable right ?), so don't settle for anything less :)

Omigod, I totally love The Sims too. So fun constructing & decorating the houses when I have the cheat to a perpetual souce of income !

savante said...

Why can't the charming Prince find a shortcut?! :)

Paul

Will said...

I LOVE kissing. Nothing turns me on faster.

savante said...

Will. I totally agree!

Paul

cw said...

i love kissing too, its so sweet when saliva of the love ones flow in your mouth
but dont like the tickling of stubble.
dreaming of a really wet, wet and wet kiss now.....